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Positive customer relationships are the basis of much B2B business, right? Positive business relationships ensure us an audience with the customer, make every step of the selling process go easier, and even provide us with a competitive edge. It’s not unusual for the business to come your way just because they like you the best.
Here’s why. The world is full of, literally overrun with, business to business sales people who have built a solid business relationship with a segment of their customer base. They then rely on those relationships to support them.
In doing that, they have missed the opportunity to develop their sales skills. “I have great relationships with my customers,” they think. “I don’t need to learn to sell well.” And, for years, that was somewhat true.
Now, however, they are paying the price of that position. Many of their customers are seeing their businesses decline. The relationships that so many sales people counted on to support them are no longer as profitable as they once were. And, since they never spent the time and effort to improve themselves, they find themselves woefully unequipped to gain new customers, to create demand for their new products, or to persuasively gain bigger chunks of their customer’s business. Their boat is sinking, and they never gained the skills necessary to keep it afloat. The vast majority of B2B sales people have never been trained in the principles, practices and processes that are the best way to do their jobs.
Not only are they paying the price of never developing their sales competencies, they now find themselves restricted by those very relationships that were, just a few years ago, their meal tickets.
Here’s how this works. A sales person develops a set of relationships, and then settles into a routine of seeing those people on a regular basis. Those customers come to rely on him, and their purchasing patterns revolve around those regular visits. As long as they order in a sufficient quantity, life is good.
But now, those same customers aren’t filling the coffers like they used to. And the sales people find themselves boxed in. They have created expectations in their customers, and those expectations now prevent them from investing time in developing more lucrative relationships. How can they call on someone else, when doing so would mean that they can’t see their buddies as often? That would jeopardize their current relationships. And, besides, they just aren’t comfortable cold calling on prospects because they haven’t done that in years.
Faced with the demands of the new economy, they find themselves woefully under equipped as sales people, and fearful of striking out of their comfort zones. Unsure what to do as they see their boat steadily sinking, they default to bailing even faster, and hope the storm goes away.
Recognize that your relationships are just as likely to be an obstacle as they are an asset. The solution is for you to change. Get some education in how to excel at B2B sales and sales competencies. There are better ways to make an appointment, manage a first call, create a customer, expand the business, sell a new product, etc. Take on the mind-set that you will need to forever improve in these basic sales competencies, and start the never-ending process of improving your sales proficiency right now. Look at it as a never ending process, not an event, and start the process as soon as possible.
Then, do a cold-blooded analysis of the profitability and potential of your current relationships, and identify those who are dragging down your productivity. You’ll have to say “No” to some low-potential accounts before you have the time to invest more strategically in higher potential accounts.
Create two lists: One list of high-potential accounts in which you want to invest more selling time, and the other list of low-potential relationships that are currently slowing down your progress.
Now, methodically work at those two lists, gradually finding a way to excuse yourself from those low-volume accounts that drain your energy and time, and invest more heavily in those higher-potential accounts.
It won’t be easy, and it won’t be quick. But, it will help you keep your boat afloat while you gain the potential to take more control of your destiny.
The formula is very similar for you. However, instead of just expecting your sales people to change their behavior on their own, you need to be actively involved in the process.
Identify those sales people who are at risk of allowing their relationships to lead to their ruin. Have a heart-to-heart talk with them, and lay out a plan for their metamorphosis. Don’t be afraid to describe specific bench marks and deadlines.
Then, help your sales people get an education in the best practices of their profession. Remember, it is not an event, it is the beginning of a never-ending process.
At the same time, work with each sales person to help him rate the potential of each account, regardless of the existing relationship, and to prioritize his time to focus more time on the high potential accounts, and less on those that drain his time and energy.
Realize that you are embarking on a journey to help that sales person change his/her behavior, and that change doesn’t’ happen overnight. You should, however, see steady progress.
If you don’t see progress, then you may want to consider the long-term future of this sales person, and how it impacts the company’s ability to survive and prosper.
About the author
Dave Kahle has trained tens of thousands of B2B salespeople and sales managers to be more effective in the 21st Century economy. He’s authored nine books, and presented in 47 states and seven countries.